"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." -----Martin Luther King, Jr.
"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,regardless of time, place, or circumstance.The thread may stretch or tangle,but it will never break."
- ancient Chinese belief

Monday, June 27, 2011

better late than never






Posted by Picasathese are the best beach pictures out of about 200! we got up early, but not early enough as the sun was shining too bright in everyone's eyes. my sweet stepsister met us at this quiet part of the beach and patiently took many many pictures. but somehow, the children who can play all day on the beach without sunglasses cannot stop squinting for a photographer!

i got several cute ones of them playing on the beach but was hoping for a really good family one...


Saturday, June 25, 2011

Funniest comment since bringing Junie home




At the pool the other day, a neighborhood kid (7 years old and clearly quite astute) says to me, "hey, your daughter looks Chinese"!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOL!

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Friday, June 17, 2011

Photo Shoot













I recently took Junie to a road that I love to walk for a photo shoot. Even though it's right across from our neighborhood, it feels like we're in the country. Junie was donned in her "Thanksgiving dress" that I adore. The lighting wasn't perfect, and I wish I were a better photographer, but these are my fave pictures from that day. It's so hard to capture Junie and her funny little personality. She is a moving target, just like my boys. I love her age now. I wish I could just freeze her for a little while at 2 1/2. Oh, how time flies.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Wack and Guy



Junie has been in speech therapy through Babies Can't Wait for a few months now. Our therapist comes to our house for one hour once a week. Junie loves it and I have definitely noticed that she is "talking" more and more.






She had already been calling Michael "Bubba" which is what Jack and Ty called him until they mastered "Michael". It is easy for them to say and I think Michael is happy to have someone call him "Bubba" once again. It is a tad southern sounding for me, but we are in Georgia so "when in Rome..."!






During our spring break beach trip (pictures to come!) Junie started calling Jack "Wack" and Ty "Guy". We think it is too funny and tend to call them those names on occasion as well.






Junie cannot get enough of her "Guy" either and says, "Hi Guuuuuuuuuuy" about 100 times a day. She found a dollar bill the other day and was examining it and then said (and waved), "Hi Guy" to George Washington!






In the car recently she had a piece of paper and was tearing little pieces off of it and handing them back, one at a time, to Ty. Ty, however, was engrossed in his gameboy so every time she had to yell, "GUY! GUY! GUY!" over and over until he looked up, took it and said "thank you, Junie". And then she would do it again... and again. After many many times, Ty said, "well, let's just admit it, I'm her favorite!". And for the boy who was very reluctant to give up his "baby" status, it has been great.






She loves to identify things in the house as Bubba's, Wack's or Ty's. And she is never wrong!






Junie adores ALL her brothers and they are NEVER anything but sweet, loving and kind to her! It has been amazing to watch their relationships grow.






And we mustn't forget "GA GA" (aka: Daddy). She had been calling him "Ra Ra" which was especially funny when he would come home from work sometimes grumpy from the commute and it sounded like she was cheering for him. But now, it's "Ga Ga" (as in "Lady Ga Ga"!) which also cracks me up. When I said to her the other day, "can you say Dadda?", David whispered, "don't teach her that yet", so I think he's enjoying his nickname too. ;)






On a side note, just within this past week, I have been seeing more improvements in Junie's speech. Last week she said "bu" for book, but this week she says "book"! She is putting ending sounds on many more words and emphasizing them. Like "WaCK".






Junie loves to say "hi" to everything or anyone she can name. In a high, happy voice. EVERY school bus that ever passes us, "Hi buuuu" (still working on the "s" sound). "hi baby", "hi moon", "hi Wack/Bubba/Ty/Momma/GaGa" (even if we've been around a while!).






We are amazed at her progress on all levels. It's like watching a flower bloom right before our eyes.

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Status Update

If I were on Facebook, which I am not as I vehemently oppose the idea of keeping up with my friends via computer (oh wait, how is that different from blogging?)my status update would say, "Ashley just spent the last 30 minutes scrubbing toothpaste into her hardwood floors in an attempt to remove a whole 'lotta Sharpie".

Wide tip.

UGH!

Even with 3 boys, this is a first for me.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Happy Birthday to Junie!




I know it's a little late but grandparents haven't seen the videos from Junie's party yet. And, for those of you that don't know Junie's little personality, here is a little glimpse.

I love it when she bangs on her highchair tray! She loves a party!

At 1 minute, you can hear how Junie says "mor-or-or-ore!".

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

One Year Ago Today...

Our lives were changed.

Because of one picture.

And one word.

We had been logged-in with a large China-only agency since 4-15-08. On February 22nd of last year, through a string of events, phone calls and emails with just the right people at just the right time, I came in contact with another, smaller agency in California.


I exchanged several emails with the woman in charge of China adoption there, and we talked on the phone once.

On February 25th I emailed to her, "I have a feeling you are going to find our child, soon".

On February 26th, I spent the night in the ER, with pneumonia and pleurisy (just threw that in there for memory's sake, and a little sympathy).


On March 2nd I emailed her again, about some paperwork. At the end of my email I wrote, "I have a feeling you will find the perfect child for us!" (I knew the shared list was due out in about 2 more weeks. I was hoping for a referral then).

On March 3rd, the very next night, I received a phone call from a number I didn't recognize. I screened it, of course, because I was in the middle of watching American Idol with David and my mom (she was visiting to help me out while I recovered from the pneumonia). On my way to bed, I checked my emails one last time...


There were FIVE emails waiting from the agency.

The first one said, "Can you please give me a call when you get this email".

The second one said, "I am sending you a file of a little girl with repaired cleft lip and cleft palate".

And another twist of fate, "I referred this child to another family over a month ago and submitted their pre-adoption application, however, CCAA didn't approve them.... Now this child's file becomes available to another family and I would like to send her file for consideration."


Finally, "Please let me know that you have received this email and file of Wang Hai Qiong and let me know if you are interested in pursuing her adoption."

The Picture





The Word:


"YES!"



We love you, Wang Hai Qiong!