"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." -----Martin Luther King, Jr.
"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,regardless of time, place, or circumstance.The thread may stretch or tangle,but it will never break."
- ancient Chinese belief

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Pool Magic :)


Hello, everybody! Sorry for the delay in a real post.

Yesterday began wouthout note or fanfare. In fact, we canceled a trip to the zoo in part because Junie didn't seem up for it. Somehow we justfied that she WAS up for shopping and we hired a guide who took us to the pearl and jade markets and other fertile shopping grounds. The guide also took us to her favorite Cantonese restaurant for amazing Dim Sum.

Later, after Junie's nap, we decided to intro her to the pool even in the face of our prediction that she would abhor it. I dressed her up in the custest pink frilly tutu bathing suit ever. We started in the baby pool. Junie sat on my lap and watched stone-faced while David fake tripped repeatedly in the pool and spit water up like he was a fountain. David said she stared at him like he was a mental patient.

So, we moved to the big pool. To make a long story short, THIS IS WHERE THE MAGIC HAPPENED. I held out my hand, she placed her tiny hand on mine and when I gently shook it and said 'yayyyyyy!' she flashed the most beautiful smile you can imagine. We laughed and shed a few tears, trying not to freak her out w our reaction. She repeated the "trick" many more times.

We saw many more gorgeous smiles throughout the afternoon and she even cooed and giggled at dinner (by the way, we found the best Hunan style restaurant ever and we intend to eat there every day until we leave! ).

We've also seen her crawl (VERY short distances!) a few more times.

Ok, we feel a little silly now about how worried we were BUT a couple points. First, what you do not know is that the orphanage staff at Gotcha Day told us point blank that "she never smiles but also never cries" (the latter as if it were a good thing). This obviously made us worry on it's face, but also caused us to doubt all the previous information on her from the orphanage and think it was canned positive info. In conjunction with her behavior (limp, unresponsive, no interest in toys, refused food and water, seemed to have no development much past newborn), we were seriously concerned even knowing that there is often an adjustment period with these adoptions. So, that's that. Pardon the drama!

She's doing better and we are loving getting glimpses into her personality.

Another iPhone blog update! Sorry for typos.

5 comments:

  1. Oh Ashley... there is no pardon needed... until someone has been through this, they have no idea and you did AMAZING!!! You hung in there with that precious baby that hasn't had that until now. YOU are the reason you are seeing those precious smiles and giggles. She is learning about love and security and trust with every minute she is with you and David. The photo today is so sweet of Junie but moreso of YOU! I see a very happy and joyful mama totally in LOVE with her baby!!! So wonderful!
    Love Sharon

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  2. Yay Junie! Way to make your mommy smile! Hope you scored some good shoes out of that smile!;)

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  3. Love seeing all your posts and am very impressed that you and David are both poets! Hope you have a WONDERFUL B-day weekend. You have the best present ever right there in your arms. Much Love, Andi

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  4. Love it! Love the joy on your face. Love that she loved the pool, love that you are now getting some giggles. No pardon needed. Adoption is not easy. Need the name of your shopper (Ann?).

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  5. so happy to read this!!!! it is amazing how her story parallel's eve's! and it's only the weekend! just wait for this next week and THEN... wait for HOME!!! she'll just knock your socks off!!!

    btw - since i emailed you last, eve has blossomed even more so and is the happiest, happiest little girl!! i was telling my husband, what is not to love about her! she is happy and silly and playful and confident and affectionate!! and even more that we have yet to discover. and 3 shorts weeks ago tonight, she was still, somber, totally shut down and broken. miracle, miracle, MIRACLE!
    erika p.

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